Open Ses-a-me - by Ben Freeman (Paperback)

Book Synopsis

When it comes to relationships, who we meet in the beginning is not always who we end up with as the relationship progresses. We rarely allow other people to see what is actually in us. We tend to hide certain areas of our life that have been locked and tucked away for no one to know. These areas hide our hurt, pain, insecurities, doubt, fear, and sometimes hidden agenda and motives, and fragile state of being. With the right key and a gentle touch, we can allow our mates to have access to that area of our world. What Open Ses-a-me brings to the table is a unique openness that creates trust between two people without the pointing of fingers or the feeling of someone looking down on them. Open Ses-a-me is a book designed for people that are serious about getting married and staying married. Since there is no magical formula for any relationship, Open Ses-a-me helps couples unlock hidden doors, giving their mate access to a functional and desirable relationship that God wants them to have.

Review Quotes

#Have you ever been in a relationship and thought to yourself, this person is only with me because I ___________. Well, my wife and I have. In the early years of our marriage, we both had those exact thoughts. I thought to myself, "She's only with me because I go to work, go to church, and take care of her and the kids." She thought to herself, "He's only with me because of the kids." We looked at each other through immature eyes; eyes of assumption; eyes that were unfamiliar and unaware of the truth that was right there in front of them. We just assumed everything was good. We weren't aware of the details of each other's lives."